Dear Families,
Having Perspective and Resilience in Challenging Times
I was recently reading some work by Steve Francis, a well-regarded consultant in school-leadership and expert in life-satisfaction.
Steve states that according to the World Health Organisation Icelandic people are amongst the longest living on the planet. On average they make it to over 83 years of age. Despite Iceland being a somewhat less than desirable place to live – food can be scarce; winters last for nine months; for a number of days there are only four hours of sunlight; and it rains 213 days per year…. Icelandic people live more than 13 years longer than the world average. All of that hard living has made them stronger and resilient.
Best-selling author Eric Barker notes the moments in life that made you better, that make you swell with pride when you think about them, from career achievements to education to parenting, did not come easy. These successes were the result of over-coming the challenges that were put in front of us.
Jeff Bezos, founder and CEO of Amazon says, “You earn a reputation by trying to do hard things well.” We build our reputation when circumstances are challenging and demanding, not when things are easy.
In Michael Easter’s book ‘The Comfort Crisis’, he highlights that the ‘good old days’ weren’t necessarily so good. We now live-in climate-controlled environments; we have (mostly) temperature-controlled houses and offices, and air-conditioned cars. Tasty food is plentiful and can even be delivered to our door. Hunting and gathering has a completely different feel.
Whilst it is natural for us to continually seek to improve things and remove discomfort from our lives, our brains are constantly seeking out problems. Michael Easter explains, fewer problems don’t lead to more satisfaction, they lead us to lowering our threshold for what is considered a problem. According to Easter it’s scientific proof of ‘first world problems’, as he states: “When a new comfort is introduced, we adapt to it and our old comforts become unacceptable. Today’s comfort is tomorrow’s discomfort. This leads to a new level of what’s considered comfortable.”
The quest to avoid discomfort and live in a state of bliss will never end because our brain won’t allow this. It is an endless marathon where the finish line is always a mile away. We are constantly looking for problems and areas for improvement. The first step in solving problems is to identify them. Our radar is well attuned to identifying problems and highlight the negative aspects. It is all about perspective. An issue that is a huge problem for one person could be considered a minor issue for another.
Rather than avoiding all discomfort, we need to deliberately challenge and stretch ourselves to remind our brains that our current difficulties aren’t all that bad. As an example, whilst the current pandemic has been demanding and the uncertainty makes it stressful, it can be helpful to remember how much worse it could be. Rather, we should be grateful for what is ‘good’ in our lives. Reminding ourselves to ‘hang in there and we will get through this’, usually always applies and helps us to overcome the obstacles we face.
Thank you to our Volunteers – Morning Tea Celebration, Tuesday 23 November at 9:00am
An immense thank you to everyone in our community who has given their time to volunteer in our school this year. St Joseph’s Payneham wouldn’t be the same without your generosity.
Thank you for supporting us in a multitude of ways, from: coaching/managing an out of hours sports team; helping in the canteen or cook for a special food day; assisting with school banking; being on a school committee; time dedicated on an excursion; preparation for an event i.e., Mother’s/Father’s Day Stall, Colour Run, etc.; laminating Mathematics resources; and the list continues.
My sincere gratitude for volunteering your time, to the benefit of the students and school. I therefore cordially invite you to join for a coffee and cake on Tuesday 23 November at 9:00am in the ‘Wellbeing Piazza’ (just outside the Parish Hall). If you intend to come along, please RSVP to info@stjopayn.catholic.edu.au
Children’s University
Last night at University of Adelaide, some of our students were recognised for their efforts in completing extra-curricular hours, contributing to their Children’s University award. A big congratulations to Sirat, Olivia, Jack B, Anhad, Jack D, Lexi, Aiden N, Jayvin and Aiden P on this significant achievement.
I would also like to acknowledge staff member Ms Peta Yates, who has done a lot of the work ‘behind the scenes’, especially in liaising with children, families and the Children’s University. If your child would like to participate in the Children's University program for 2022, please do speak with Peta – pyates@stjopayn.catholic.edu.au
Road safety and following parking protocols
As I have written about before, school drop-off and pick-up times are busy, for everyone. Of course, the aim is for this to happen in a safe and courteous manner. Please demonstrate consideration, patience, as well as travelling slowly around the school, especially where marked (no faster than 25 km/h). Moreover, please do not park or stand your vehicle across driveways and solid yellow lines. If there are grandparents, family members, or friends, who drop-off/pick-up, please pass on these details. Thank you for your anticipated attention to the above.
Property Purchase – 84 Portrush Road
The school recently acquired the property that is on the corner of Portrush Road and Tarcoma Avenue. I thank the School Board for their support and work through this respective process. More information about the plans for this site will be conveyed in due course.
Thank you
Many thanks to Joanne Metti (current parent) whose business, LOUNET, has donated several boxes of hand santizers to our school. We are greateful for this kind donation.
End of Year Christmas Concert
A reminder about the End of Year Concert happening on Thursday 25 November, at 6:30pm, on the school grounds. This is for all Preschool to Year 6 children and families. We are strongly encouraging all children and families to be present on the night. Please see the flyer in the this Newsletter for more information.
Bandanna Day
Thank you for supporting Bandanna Day on Friday 29 October. Our school raised $1099, which goes towards young Australians dealing with cancer.
Condolences
Harper Marotti’s (1T) great grandmother recently passed away. Our sympathies to the family at this time.
Baby News
Congratulations to the Festa family (Sophia, RNG), on the recent arrival of their daughter and sister, Amelie.
Also, best wishes to the Traino family (Evie, Preschool Kanga1), on the birth of their son and brother, Owen.
We remember...
Today is Remembrance Day; a day to ponder the impact of war and violence on the lives of so many, giving thanks for all those who died in the pursuit of peace.
Preschool to Year 6 students participated in a minute’s silence just before 11:00am in front of the Australian flag (located on the asphalt). I had the pleasure of taking the SRC Executive (Elise, Sierra, Nicholas and Jett) to the Cross of Sacrifice (near the Payneham Civic Centre), for a community Remembrance Service. Let us teach our children the value of both silence and gratitude in moments like these.
COVID-19 information
As per the details in the previous Parent Newsletter, Catholic Education South Australia, in line with community requirements, has advised that the wearing of face masks is not required outdoors on the school site (physical distancing must still occur).
However, if you need to enter a building, please COVID-Safe check-in, physically distance from others, and in this situation please wear a face mask.
Friday 12 November: R-6 Sports Day and Preschool Student Free Day
A final reminder that St Joseph’s Payneham Sports Day will be tomorrow, Friday 12 November, at SA Athletics Stadium (formerly SANTOS Stadium). For further details, please view the letter which was circulated by Sports Coordinator, Mr Michael Musolino. On that note, I do extend my thanks to Michael for the work and organisation in the lead up to Sports Day – it’s a big undertaking with much work prior to the event.
Additionally, tomorrow, Friday 12 November, for Preschool children, is a Student Free Day.
Wishing you well!
Simon Mechis
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