Dear Families,
The Power of Patience: Teaching Delayed Gratification to Your Child
In our often fast-paced world, the ability to delay gratification has become a valuable life skill, and it's never too early to start teaching it to your child. Delayed gratification is the ability to resist the temptation of an immediate reward in favour of a larger, more fulfilling one later down the track. Here are some key benefits of instilling this important trait in your child's life.
Improved self-control: Teaching your child to delay gratification helps them learn self-control and discipline. It allows them to make thoughtful decisions rather than impulsively choosing short-term pleasures. This skill will serve them well throughout their life, enabling them to resist negative peer pressure and make responsible choices.
Better academic performance: Delayed gratification is closely linked to improved academic performance. Children who can focus on studying and homework, even when they'd rather be doing something else, tend to achieve better grades. They understand the importance of investing time and effort for long-term goals, such as good grades and a successful future.
Enhanced problem-solving skills: Encouraging your child to wait for the right moment can foster creative problem-solving. Instead of seeking immediate solutions, they'll be more inclined to think critically and consider various options to tackle challenges.
Stronger emotional resilience: Delayed gratification teaches children that not everything in life comes instantly. They learn to cope with disappointment and frustration, which are valuable emotional skills. This resilience will help them navigate the ups and downs of life with a positive attitude.
Financial responsibility: Understanding the concept of delayed gratification can lay the foundation for financial responsibility. Children who learn to save and invest for the future, rather than spending impulsively are more likely to manage their finances wisely as adults.
Improved relationships: Delayed gratification isn't just about resisting the urge to buy something immediately. It's also about waiting for the right moment to speak or react in a conversation. Teaching this skill can lead to better communication and healthier relationships with peers and family members.
So, how can you help your child develop delayed gratification?
Set a good example: Children learn by observing their parents/caregivers. Show them how you can wait for things patiently and make responsible choices.
Use everyday opportunities: Teach delayed gratification through simple daily activities. Encourage them to finish their homework before playing or to save their money for a special occasion or item, instead of spending it right away.
Praise their efforts: Celebrate their successes in delaying gratification, no matter how small. Positive reinforcement can go a long way in encouraging this behaviour.
Encourage goal-setting: Help your child set achievable goals. Breaking goals into smaller steps can demonstrate the value of patience and persistence.
In summary, teaching delayed gratification is a valuable gift you can give to your child. It equips them with essential life skills that will help them succeed academically, emotionally, and socially. By nurturing this ability early, you're helping your child build a foundation for a brighter future.
Appointment of new Assistant Principal, Religious Identity and Mission (APRIM)
As you would have read in my circular earlier this week, I congratulate Patrizia Puglia on her appointment as the new school APRIM. Patrizia is currently the Director of Religion and Spirituality at St Michael’s College – Primary Campus. Patrizia will commence in her role at the start of the 2024 school year.
Staffing, 2024
I congratulate both Michael Mastrangelo (current Year 6 teacher) and Shana Phillips (Year 1 teacher) on winning a respective position in other Catholic schools for 2024. Michael has been successful in being appointed to Our Lady Queen of Peace School, Albert Park; whilst Shana, has secured a role at St Martin de Porres School, Sheidow Park.
Next year, we will welcome the following teachers to St Joseph’s Payneham: Ben Williams (currently teaching at St Mary’s Memorial School, Glenelg); and Melinda Harding (on maternity leave this year, in 2022 taught at Immaculate Heart Catholic Primary School, Queensland).
End of Year Student Reports
For the End of Year Student Report, we will be opening the SEQTA Engage, which means families will be able to access their child’s Report Card online. This will save time for office staff, money (envelopes and paper copies), as well as being environmentally friendly. Families who wish to have a hard copy, can request this from the Front Office.
Term Four Calendar and key dates
The Term Four Calendar was distributed at the end of last term. I particularly highlight the following whole school events taking place during Term Four:
- Sports Day, Friday 3 November (at Payneham Oval); and
- End of Year Christmas Concert, Wednesday evening, 29 November (on school grounds).
School Uniform Reminder
As we are now in Term Four, all students are expected to wear their summer uniform. We also seek your ongoing support in ensuring students are meeting the school uniform expectations, including having hair that is clean, neat and well-groomed at all times. Cuts and styles which are extreme are not acceptable. Hair that touches the collar must be tied back. Thank you to the families who consistently send their child in neat, clean, full, and correct uniform.
Building and Infrastructure Update
The new building is nearing completion, ready to house our junior primary students from 2024.
Work to the construction of the car park, on the corner allotment at Tarcoma Avenue and Portrush Road will be re-commencing very soon.
A new nature playground will be constructed over the December and January school holiday period, replacing the current playground. The endeavour is for the playground to be open for play at the beginning of the 2024 school year.
Congratulations
I offer my best wishes to:
- the Skaqaj family (Kristjan, 3MM and Isabel, RJN), on the birth of a boy, ‘Domenic’.
- the Musolino family (Mason, 1DC and Zahlia, RJN), on the birth of a boy, ‘Jordyn’.
Wishing you well!
Simon Mechis
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