Tune-in and engage with your child
I share with you some advice that I recently came across in the ‘Fathering Project’ platform.
In today’s society, there are many distractions that can prevent us from enjoying the present moment. When spending time with your child, try and reduce these distractions as much as possible so you can stay focused and engaged with your child. Being fully present can make all the difference in strengthening your bond and making them feel valued.
Ask yourself
- Am I truly present when I am spending time with my child or distracted by all the things going on in my life?
- Am I really engaged and listening or distracted with calls, texts, and emails when my child talks to me?
Top tips for engaging with your child
- Really ‘be there’. Put away the phone, stop what you are doing and connect with your child.
- Be consistent. You never know when your child will decide, when they want to tell you something really important. Don’t miss that moment.
- Making eye contact lets your child know they are important, and you are really listening.
- Stop and listen. Get to know about your child as an individual – their thoughts, their ideas, their wishes, their likes and dislikes, their friends and their dreams.
Takeaway action
Next time you spend alone time with your child, put away the phone and focus your attention on them. Your attention shows them they are valued, strengthening your bond and building trust. Small moments of connection create lifelong memories.
Official Opening of the Carlo Acutis Building
Last Thursday 20 February, we had the official opening of the Carlo Acutis Building. Our Archbishop, Patrick O’Regan, the Director of Catholic Education South Australia (CESA), Dr Neil McGoran, the Chair of South Australian Commission for Catholic Schools (SACCS), Mr John Neate; as well as other guests, including CESA leadership members, Payneham Parish representatives, Fr Michael Romeo, Sr Josie Labata, Sr Rita Ruzzene, and of course the students, staff and families were present, on the new oval for this significant occasion.
As I mentioned at the opening, we are fortunate to have the beautiful structure, the Carlo Acutis Building, at our school. I express my gratitude to all those involved in making this project come to life – from the initial concept design, the detailed planning, the physical structural work, the finishing touches, and ensuring all aspects have been made compliant. The students, teachers, staff and families now fill this space every day bringing positive vigour, vitality, and cheerfulness.
Carlo Acutis, whom this building is named after (and soon to be canonised a saint), is a fine example of a young person who was deeply connected to his faith and used his passion for using his gifts to make a difference in the world. Carlo’s inspiring life encourage us to embrace a sense of wonder, kindness, and creativity as we explore, learn, and grow in faith and love at St Joseph’s Payneham.
You can view the story that is in the Southern Cross publication by visiting the link here:
New building dedicated to teenage saint
School Board 2025
At the AGM on 18 February, election and endorsement of the 2025 School Board took place. I provide the names of the 2025 School Board Members:
Fr Michael Romeo (Parish Priest and President), Ernie Icolaro (Chairperson), Simon Mechis (Principal), Michael Musolino (Deputy Principal), Iolanda Calabrese (Treasurer), Tania Melfi (Staff Representative), Skye Campbell-Hand (P&F Representative), Daniel LaBella, Tina Caggiano, Vince Mascolo, Erica Giouleas, Matt Calabro and Sophia Saraceno.
School Picnic, Friday 21 March
The Feast of St Joseph, patron saint of our school, occurs on Wednesday 19 March. A School Mass at 9:15am will occur on this day. On Friday 21 March, to acknowledge this feast, there will be School Picnic at Payneham Oval (for Reception to Year 6 students). Families are welcome to join. A letter, with all the details will be sent home soon.
Safeguarding Children and Young People Policy and Keeping Safe, Child Protection Curriculum
In this Newsletter, I include for you the Catholic Archdiocese of Adelaide Safeguarding Children and Young People Policy; as well as The Keeping Safe, Child Protection Curriculum site for parents and caregivers (link below).
https://www.education.sa.gov.au/parents-and-families/curriculum-and-learning/early-years/keeping-safe-child-protection-curriculum-information-parents-and-carers
Donation of pancakes
We will soon commence the season of Lent, on Ash Wednesday (5 March). The day before we will observe an old age tradition, ‘Shrove Tuesday’, where traditionally, pancakes are consumed. I express my thanks to Norwood Foodland, as they once again will kindly donate ready-made pancakes for our students.
Student Mobile and Wearable Technology Policy
I draw your attention to the above Policy (which was recently updated) and is located on our website. This policy provides teachers, students, and parents/caregivers with clear expectations regarding the use of mobile and wearable technology devices during school hours. To view the Policy, please visit this link: https://www.stjopayn.catholic.edu.au/files/22879/Student_Mobile_and_Wearable_Technology_Policy.pdf
Student Free Day, Friday 7 March
As per the Term One Calendar, please note that Friday 7 March is a Student Free Day. Staff will be involved in professional learning on this day. OSHC will be available if you require this service.
Condolences
I extend my sympathies to:
- The Sofia family (Emilia, 4RP), on the passing of her paternal great grandmother.
- Ms Tania Melfi (Year 2 Teacher) and the De Conno family (Lylah, 6CK), on the passing of their father and grandfather, Vincenzo.
- The Luppino family (Julian, 6CK), on the passing of his paternal grandfather.
Wishing you well!
Simon Mechis
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