Personal boundaries
Boundaries in healthy relationships are just like boundaries on a sports field or a court. It’s like setting a line that you don’t want someone to cross in the way they treat you, and boundaries work both ways. The saying “treat others how you would like to the treated” is an example of setting boundaries. In a relationship, a boundary might be telling someone it is not okay to be treated in a certain way and may sound comparable to “you are being rough” or “I don’t like it when you shout at me.”
As parents/caregivers we can guide our children in setting their boundaries and be a good role model by showing them how we respect their boundaries. Helping our children to be firm about their boundaries and what is acceptable to them early on, will help them to do this in the future when the risk factors might be higher, and you may not be there with them.
Some tips
- Talk to your children about personal space and body boundaries. What is okay and what is not.
- Teach your child how to say ‘no’ or ‘stop’ and other ways to communicate when they have had enough, don’t want to do something or want to stop something that makes them feel uncomfortable.
- Teach your child to also respect the boundaries that others set.
- Teach your children to trust their feelings. If it doesn’t feel right to them, they should say ‘no’ or ‘stop’ and tell you about it as soon as they can.
- Try some ‘what if…’ scenarios. ‘What if someone gives you a big hug and you don’t like it?’ ‘What if someone is hurting you when you are playing?’
- *Adapted from The Fathering Project platform
Staffing News
Mrs Josie Colangelo (Front Office) will be on long service leave from 10 June until 26 July 2025. I wish Josie the best for her leave. Replacing Josie in the Front Office whilst on leave will be Mrs Dora Cavuoto. As many of you will know, Dora was a staff member at St Joseph’s Payneham for a long period (including working in the Front Office for numerous years and only recently retired), so she is very familiar with our school. Welcome back Dora!
Ms Tania Melfi has been appointed and seconded to the Acting APRIM position at St Joseph’s Hectorville, from 10 June until 11 August 2025. I congratulate Tania on this selection. Replacing Tania in 2TM will be Mrs Emily Parrella.
Whilst Emily Parrella is in 2TM for the above period, Ms Adriana Bava will take Italian lessons for all R-6 students. Adriana is an experienced Italian teacher, most recently having taught the language at Nazareth Catholic College.
Mrs Sandra Rapuano (WHS Officer), will be concluding her time at St Joseph’s on 13 June. Sandra has been successful in winning a position in another Catholic school. Sandra has been a fine asset to the staff, and we wish her the best. We will be looking to fill the vacant role soon.
Multicultural Day Thanks
It was fine to see our community embracing Multicultural Day last Friday 23 May. We have 36 different cultures at St Joseph’s! A key message, to have respect and be inclusive of all cultural backgrounds.
Thank you to Mrs Emily Parrella and all those staff members and volunteers who assisted to make for a successful Multicultural Day. So much time, planning and energy went into the occasion, and I applaud Emily on having created a fruitful experience for the students and families.
It was also wonderful to see a number of families and staff at the P&F organised ‘Pizza and Pasta Night’, at the Altavilla Club last Friday evening, 23 May. Thank you for making the effort to attend and my gratitude to the P&F crew for bringing this event to our community.
Anti-Bullying Rapid Review
The Australian Government recently announced an Anti-Bullying Rapid Review. The Review will look at current approaches to addressing bullying in schools, what is working and what needs strengthening, with the aim of providing options for the development of a consistent national standard for responding to bullying and its underlying causes in schools.
To provide feedback through the submission process, please visit www.education.gov.au/antibullying-rapid-review This page contains instructions on how to participate, along with the Review’s Terms of Reference. Submissions can be made anonymously if preferred. If you have any questions or concerns, please contact ABRRConsultations@education.gov.au
Condolences
I extend my sympathies to:
- The Horne family (William, 3WM and Thomas, RJN), on the passing of their maternal grandmother.
Congratulations
I offer my best wishes to:
- the Calabrese family (Michael, 4BR), on the recent birth of a baby girl, ‘Amelia’.
Wishing you well!
Simon Mechis
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